A quiet beginning to the year – inspired by the North
In the North, a new year rarely begins loudly.
Of course, there are plans here too. Ideas, intentions, to-do lists. But the underlying mood of January is different: outside, it is dark, often very cold and quiet – quiet in the particular way only winter can be, when everything is covered by a thick layer of snow. And perhaps that is exactly why so much in Scandinavia feels like a gentle counterbalance to haste and pressure: less speed, more warmth. Less “I have to”, more “now is a time to rest.”
A central part of this culture is its deep connection to nature. People do not simply live in nature or close to it, but withnature, in harmony with it. In Norway and Sweden, there is even a word for this: friluftsliv – a way of life that describes simplicity, closeness to nature and a sense of inner spaciousness. For many, this also means allowing the calm of winter to be lived and felt, rather than spending January mentally fixated on a summer body or the next holiday.
And then there is the light.
Anyone who knows Scandinavian winters understands that light is not just decoration. Light is care. Orientation. A sign of warmth and hope in the darkness. Candles in windows, soft light in the morning, a conscious moment of pause.
Perhaps this is one of the most important lessons we can learn from the North:
You do not have to change anything in order to begin the year well. You are allowed to arrive first. Our January selfcare ritual is inspired by the North for exactly this reason – because it is something many of us could gently take to heart.
Our Scandinavian-inspired selfcare ritual for January
This ritual is not a New Year reset.
It is an arrival.
Not “I need to improve myself.”
But rather: “I am allowed to feel myself again.”
What you’ll need
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a candle
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a blanket
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a few minutes of stillness
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optionally: a journal or a piece of paper
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your acupressure mat
Duration: around 20–30 minutes – or as long as feels right.
Step 1: Light instead of pressure
Light a candle.
Sit quietly beside it for a moment.
No phone.
No distractions.
No goal.
Light marks a transition – from the outside to the inside.
It says: this is where something calm, warm and hopeful begins.
Step 2: Arriving in the body
Roll out your mat.
Lie down slowly.
Cover yourself with a blanket if you like.
Acupressure is a clear physical experience – and the body responds honestly.
Give yourself time. Stay for as long as it feels comfortable.
Breathe calmly.
Let your exhale become slightly longer than your inhale.
You don’t need to do anything. Just stay.
Many people experience this moment as grounding – as if the body reconnects after the mind has been leading for a long time.
Step 3: Gratitude without optimisation
After your time on the mat – or even while you are still there – take your journal.
Write three sentences:
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What am I grateful for right now?
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What already feels enough in my life?
No resolutions.
No plans.
Just awareness.
In Scandinavia, contentment often has little to do with perfection. It grows out of simplicity – from moments that do not need to be improved.
Step 4: One word for January
Choose a single word.
No motto.
No task.
Just a quiet companion.
For example:
slow · sunny · gentle · peaceful · heart-warming
This word may stay with you – or quietly leave again.
Step 5: Doing nothing
Remain seated for a little while.
Or lie back down on the mat.
Or hold a warm cup of tea in your hands.
And then: nothing.
This may be the most important part of the ritual.
Not because it achieves something – but because it demands nothing.
Why acupressure is part of this ritual
Acupressure has long been used as a method to support body awareness and relaxation. Studies have explored its effects on sleep, stress and subjective wellbeing. While findings vary, many indicate that people experience acupressure as regulating and calming – particularly when practised regularly and with awareness.
Within the context of this ritual, acupressure is not a tool for optimisation.
It is an invitation to return to the body.
Not faster. Not better. Just more present.
Especially in January, this can be a gentle counterbalance to everyday life, which so often takes place primarily in the mind.
Perhaps this is the true beginning of the year.
Not the big plans – but the moment in which you meet yourself again.
Less doing.
More being.
Sources
- Visit Norway – Friluftsliv
Description of the Norwegian concept friluftsliv as a way of life centred on simplicity, closeness to nature and inner calm.
https://www.visitnorway.com/things-to-do/outdoor-activities/friluftsliv/ - Sweden.se – Light and darkness in Sweden
Official Swedish resource on the cultural significance of light, darkness and seasonal rituals during the winter months.
https://sweden.se/life/society/light-and-darkness-in-sweden - Sweden.se – Lucia
Background information on the Lucia tradition and the role of light during the darkest time of the year in Sweden.
https://sweden.se/culture/celebrations/lucia - Fagerhult Group / Philips – Company history (Gothenburg)
Historical background on the electric Advent candleholder (adventsljusstake) and its spread in Sweden from the 1930s onwards.
https://www.fagerhult.com/about-fagerhult/history/ - Babbel Magazine – The Swedish concept of “mys”
Explanation of the Swedish concept mys as a form of everyday cosiness, intentional simplicity and emotional warmth.
https://www.babbel.com/en/magazine/swedish-mys - Yeung et al., 2012 – Acupressure for insomnia: a systematic review
Overview of studies on acupressure and sleep quality, highlighting potential benefits as well as differences in study design.
Journal of Alternative and Complementary Medicine
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22439739/ - Waits et al., 2018 – Acupressure for sleep quality: systematic review and meta-analysis
Summary of multiple studies on acupressure and subjective wellbeing.
Sleep Medicine Reviews
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/29336888/ - Kisker et al., 2024 – Effects of regular acupressure mat use on stress and well-being
Recent study examining the effects of regular acupressure mat use on perceived stress and wellbeing in healthy adults.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38311735/ - Frizziero et al., 2021 – Acupressure mat and rehabilitation in chronic low back pain
Randomised study on the use of acupressure mats in the context of wellbeing and physical perception.
Healthcare (MDPI)
https://www.mdpi.com/2227-9032/9/8/974